tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post8219598072321103615..comments2024-02-14T21:01:02.300+02:00Comments on The Big Riddle: 7 Signs You Are A Victim Of GaslightingRidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05240323567817957799noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-53754041876773226212016-06-16T18:57:29.196+03:002016-06-16T18:57:29.196+03:00Why is it not both genders? I have been in the pre...Why is it not both genders? I have been in the presence of couples in which husband was the abuser, and the wife was the abuser in gas-lighting. Indirectly, this article gives power to the woman abuser now armed with more ammo pointing the finger to her subservient husband about how he has gaslit her life. StudentoftheWordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10655167813841667451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-69007039444346957742016-05-01T20:35:33.868+03:002016-05-01T20:35:33.868+03:00While much of this article is good, the author cle...While much of this article is good, the author clearly does not understand the difference between gas lighting and normal (if you can call it that) psychological abuse. Furthermore, I have to doubt that they actually saw the movie "Gaslight"- because if they did they would be aware that the villain's motive was to drive his wife crazy by denying facts visible to the naked eye in addition to telling her she was imagining things she heard. I actually am a victim of a gaslighter as well as people who were psychologically abusive in more traditional ways, AND have a degree in sociology (classes for which are where I first learned the term "gaslighting"). The reason I am mentioning these inaccuracies is not to nitpick. I only say anything because these kind of inaccuracies can do a LOT of harm in a society where people often believe everything they read. I have been in the situation where I quoted a bad reference (who was only a little off, like this author) when trying to explain what was going on at home. Because I used bad information to explain what was going on, no one believed and/or thought it was a big deal. I was just a little girl at the time. No one ever helped me. No one ever believed me-& my relatives STILL treat me like a liar, or (at best) like I am insane and delusional. I don't want another person to suffer because an author didn't bother to really do all the research and/or didn't understand what they were writing about.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16783243829337030483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-87966642329437561542016-03-23T05:09:22.453+02:002016-03-23T05:09:22.453+02:00I think, if you actually read what Lisa said, you&...I think, if you actually read what Lisa said, you'd discover that she never admitted to being the victim, and in fact, the opposite. <br /><br />It's pretty bad if your ignorance and self loathing is so bad that you automatically assume a female is playing the "victim card", even when saying otherwise. Digital_Utopiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15534460689123201661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-81501737889154831972016-03-20T23:28:18.485+02:002016-03-20T23:28:18.485+02:00lol, another "victim" of emotional abuse...lol, another "victim" of emotional abuse attacking someone's intelligence over a typo. Ohh the irony Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08508772713509493766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-55218680322204734672016-03-20T23:04:08.530+02:002016-03-20T23:04:08.530+02:00Sexist article and quite possibly a form of gaslig...Sexist article and quite possibly a form of gaslighting in itself. What a perfect ad hominen attack. Accuse someone of being abusive via this manipulation tactic and suddenly all your own imperfections and manipulatatory techiques become invisible. Let us face reality here, all individuals in a relationship manipulate the other party. This is in and of itself not necessarily a bad thing. Relationships, be they romantic or otherwise, comprise a social economic exchange. In any exchange each party will endevour to maximize their personal return and minimize the investment required to receive that return. We, as people, do not like to admit to this fact and so we try to shift any example (albeit an extreme one in this case) into the realm of psycopathy. Please just stop with the narrative of the special snowflake abused by the evil man. I am not a special snowflake and neither is anyone else. Grow up.Leslie.Marshallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06504692258210537473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-22505568366811038232016-02-05T06:21:31.839+02:002016-02-05T06:21:31.839+02:00Yeah they could change He to, They.
and yes we do...Yeah they could change He to, They. <br />and yes we do, everything revolves around woman and sex. pressure from both parties but females are in the position of power in those regards. behind every great man there is and was a woman. so i don't get the whole new aged feminist movement? its kind of a contradiction if you ask me. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14463099183943169208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-76465028005584982452016-02-05T06:17:22.592+02:002016-02-05T06:17:22.592+02:00IKR they should change, He To They.
Oh and i agree...IKR they should change, He To They.<br />Oh and i agree with you 100% the only men who dont bend over backwards for woman like cock<br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14463099183943169208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-19158946185913737142016-01-23T17:18:38.101+02:002016-01-23T17:18:38.101+02:00you can't even spell it, you are blindly showi...you can't even spell it, you are blindly showing your complete ignorance. I, the woman, was the narcissist many times as my exs' told me.TJHSLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01261262478819609421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-53126762879873338392016-01-23T17:17:42.397+02:002016-01-23T17:17:42.397+02:00you can't even spell it, you are blindly showi...you can't even spell it, you are blindly showing your complete ignorance. I, the woman, was the narcissist many times as my exs' told me.TJHSLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01261262478819609421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-3033315328060317102015-12-17T12:03:15.064+02:002015-12-17T12:03:15.064+02:00This article is 100% legit. I was in a relationshi...This article is 100% legit. I was in a relationship with a narcissist and this described life with that person to a T. I've ready multiple books in effort to help me recover that were both personal stories and clinical research studies. This is extremely accurate and if you think it's stupid then you're only ignorant and naive. AndyW22https://www.blogger.com/profile/13620865053026164477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-52856816425889792462015-12-17T12:02:11.445+02:002015-12-17T12:02:11.445+02:00This article is 100% legit. I was in a relationshi...This article is 100% legit. I was in a relationship with a narcissist and this described life with that person to a T. I've ready multiple books in effort to help me recover that were both personal stories and clinical research studies. This is extremely accurate and if you think it's stupid then you're only ignorant and naive. AndyW22https://www.blogger.com/profile/13620865053026164477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-69588848435511036662015-12-02T02:37:33.226+02:002015-12-02T02:37:33.226+02:00I had an on and off relationship with a narcissist...I had an on and off relationship with a narcissist. At first I did't get it but It finally sank in when I realized she was telling me I said things that I knew I would never say to anyone. She would insist I said these things but my memory was going. I knew my memory wasn't as good as it used to be so I bought into her B.S. Then it hit not only was my memory still good it was better than most peoples my age, and these were nasty things I just wouldn't say to anyone. Once I caught on I wouldn't play her games anymore and since she couldn't manipulate me anymore she left. So long to bad rubbish.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05522596517838301414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-470178999066663492015-11-30T02:52:27.855+02:002015-11-30T02:52:27.855+02:00Read the Editors note in the beginning-
Editor’...Read the Editors note in the beginning- <br /><br /> Editor’s Note: Though the pronoun “he” is used throughout to refer to the narcissist, the behaviors described are also enacted by women with men as the victims. SiySiyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10803039418112738609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-48851449006209635652015-11-28T13:57:01.399+02:002015-11-28T13:57:01.399+02:00I lived with narcissist for 20 years, at first I ...I lived with narcissist for 20 years, at first I believed everything he said but after about 10 years I realised what he was, but he was a master manipulator and persuaded me to move far away from my family and friends so that I would have to depend on him. I finally escaped and I'm free now but I do regret the damage he may have caused my children and the wasted years.Noreenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17188434778320536835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-54578447355636283232015-11-28T13:38:06.997+02:002015-11-28T13:38:06.997+02:00Narcissist is just a word until you have one in ur...Narcissist is just a word until you have one in ur life. Everyone displays narcissistic behaviors from time to time but these people will make you question what you thought normal is. A relationship where both partners want eachother mutually is rare. Usually one person likes the other more. If youre always the one that everyone wants, it can result in making you narcissistic. The things a narcissist will put you through will stand out from previous partners. For example; mine lived about an hour n a half drive away, one time I drove to see her and she wouldnt open the door or pick up the phone. Many times she would ask me to leave at 3am cause I was somehow disrupting her sleep. On one occassion she invited a guy over, told me "he just a friend" then asked me to leave. Sometimes when shed get mad shed just call other guys to pick her up and flaunt it in my face. Narcissist behavior is outrageous and just when you thought you seen it all they pull out another trick out of their bag. They make you think WTF most of the time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17317535634832054901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-9692697459495375792015-11-28T08:44:15.887+02:002015-11-28T08:44:15.887+02:00Funny,but it's 100% always women who are left ...Funny,but it's 100% always women who are left after a longer relationship who use the word narcists after being leftAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-90074255617538055162015-11-28T02:38:06.333+02:002015-11-28T02:38:06.333+02:00This is stupidThis is stupidCuteguy056https://www.blogger.com/profile/17300608870763696947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-41960842418478302962015-11-27T23:55:56.846+02:002015-11-27T23:55:56.846+02:00Here's the book to get if you want to find inn...Here's the book to get if you want to find inner freedom.<br /><br />http://www.amazon.com/Alkuajatus-Original-Thought-Hannu/dp/9522865303/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08583173490701930803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7675281103111564792.post-88367660192106634962015-11-27T12:47:51.082+02:002015-11-27T12:47:51.082+02:00The condition is real but affects both genders. Th... The condition is real but affects both genders. This article is sexist. "The only reason you were told we live in a male dominated culture is because we live in a female dominated culture."snakeappletreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14011909437350178298noreply@blogger.com